Every time I get those tendencies with someone...I cut them out of my life. They are not worth any effort from you nor jail time. If it is only here and there, you just need to keep in mind at all times how much you love them.
Meditation, walk away to cool off, rationalize and analyse your own feelings etc Best wishes, Leo.
Deep breathe, meditate, and later talk about how you really feel about that person.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.