I'm so depressed an I have two small kids a job bills out of control and I've been single not one date in over 2yrs.What do I do seriously?

Move forward for now. Don't let negative thoughts control your mindstate for a start... Write a list of positives on a peice of paper. Then list your financial problems down to the exact amount and get clarity on your whole situation, Forget about him for now devote your effort, time and energy on just the kids and yourself.

You're probably beautiful so wait until later to worry about relationships. You can aqquire that when your on your feet. When your feeling accomplished and independent you will beam of confidence and in turn will be more likely to attract a respectful guy that will treat you more equaly.(good guys don't control confident, strong woman) If youre finding it hard to work and raise the kids involve them with enterprising, Whatever it is it could be anything, But it will have an everlasting effect on your situation and your childrens capacity to earn and enterprize.

Not to mention your relationship with them. Also feed that burning desire to out do him it will raise morale. Keep positive and know that good things take time and effort, Accept the present time and know you create your experience through thought.

If you want it go and take it.

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You may want to just focus on the highlights: abusive relationship, pimp ex-husband, etc. That being said, it sounds like it was a blessing in disguise that you are free from such an unhealthy relationship. You sound like an intelligent woman who deserves much better. You may want to try to find a counselor that you can talk about these things with and help guide you on your new path.

Try to be as positive as possible. Good luck!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.