I'm very quiet. Not shy but I just never seem to know what to add in a conversation. Has anyone else had this problem?

I'm very quiet. Not shy but I just never seem to know what to add in a conversation. Has anyone else had this problem?

Asked by Soft-Spoken 10 days ago Similar questions: quiet shy add conversation problem Health > Mental Health.

Similar questions: quiet shy add conversation problem.

Um yes always:/ On good days I find that Im confident and totally comfortable with whatever I say or do. On bad days, I cant seem to find ANYTHING to say... Its uncomfortable and I feel left out when others find something funny and uplifting to say while I cant think of anything. I noticed that wearing comfortable clothes and having a good hair day makes my day good; when I feel confident about how I look, I feel confident in all areas and it usually puts me in a good talkative mood.

What also helps is imagine yourself when you're in one of your good talkative moods. When you imagine yourself talkative and in a really good confident mood, you may find that you can become that right there and then. Soon, you'll be feeling confident and talkative!

THAT is OK. IMO it's better to be quiet and listen, then to be one of those people who can't shut up, and end up driving everyone crazy. Or a know it all, who dominates conversations , but they don't know squat about what they are talking about.

So don't worry about it, contribute when you can.

I understand. Don't worry what others think...be yourself. Attract people who are right for you and let the rest go.

Maybe the conversation's subject is of no interest to you. If you are like that with all conversations, you need to educate yourself in current events and subjects you like and form an opinion so you can put your two cents in, if you want. Some people are just quiet and prefer listening.

Others are great debaters and annoy the heck out of everybody with their very opinionated thoughts. As long as you laugh when everyone laughs, shake your head in agreement to show that you are present and participating I don't see a problem. Some people are more for a one-to-one conversation and not in a group.

That's OK, too.

You have some unreasonable fears to overcome. Your acknowledgement of the problem is a start. Most social conversations I get involved with there is nothing important said.

I can't imagine you don't have something to say that is as important as nothing. If you are afraid of being embarassed, try assuming you said something embarassing before you start. That way anything you say after that has to be an improvement.

Most people don't say anything important they just think that what they say is important. Practice these sentences:1. You're an idiot and you don't know what you are talking about.2.

Democrats are idiots.3. Independents are idiots.4. Says who?5.

Where did you hear a stupid thing like that?6. Yo mama. You get the idea.

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