Is a court marriage Valid if the couple never stayed together after marriage, is a divorce required to move on?

I agree with you Balaji. Everybody gets married because they believe ''this is for a lifetime'' otherwise if they knew it would fail, nobody would get married to start with.. so people must have good intentions unless they marry someone for the money or they marry for convenience because there is a child on the way.. then nowadays in the Western world at least this is no longer a reason to get married but in the 1960's still it was considered ''improper'' for a woman to be pregnant and not to get married to the ''father of the child she expected''... some battles occur because the partners have children and they are not all so civilized that they can sit down and talk to each other and make mature decisions.. just like people you meet in life or even here on yahoo answers... some answers are polite and mature, and some are sometimes rude.. and people who have been married are not different unfortunately.. they may get into big arguments over custody of the child, over child support.. some may get married and the husband loses his job then he tries to find work again but finds it hard, and the wife is stressed with the household and the children and doesn't give him the emotional support he needs and he may turn to alcohol and get addicted.. then when he is drunk he may turn violent and because of having no job he will feel he failed his family but some alcoholics are in denial that they need help and won't join the AA to get support.. so they may even hit their wife when they are drunk and eventually this gets so bad that they end up in front of a divorce court and there was love, but they drifted apart.. . Because he lost his job, they did not work as a team to support each other in bad times and he turned to drink and then became violent and hit his wife.. so they fight and they get divorced... Some people don't fight in the marriage.. but one of the partners will cheat on the other.. that is a betrayal of trust and that hurts just as much... then the one who gets cheated on will retalliate by calling their partner a cheat and a liar and whoever is cheating may say some insulting thing about the partner he or she cheated on... he or she gained weight and they no longer find their partner physically attractive.. then they go and cheat... it's horrible but it happens and feelings get hurt.. and people fight with words and words can sometimes hurt more than anything else... It just happens, because people although they go into a marriage with good intentions often don't work together as a team on their marriage.. it takes a lot of mutual effort to keep a marriage happy and it takes a lot of mutual commitment and mutual trust and mutual respect and a lot of communication with each other when problems come up.. to address them and talk about them with each other so one can find a mutual solution.. sometimes the married couple think they are so busy with their job and their children.. they no longer take the time to talk about their hopes, dreams, future, or problems that things like this can happen...or the wife may suffer from depression and her husband is not supportive and he instead of being helpful feels overwhelmed and says to her ''you are just like your mother'' because her mom suffered from depression, too.. then they start to argue and may lose respect for each other.. and words do hurt.. but rude and nasty words are said in marriages sometimes and if it hurts that much, then that's not good manners.. but sometimes there is a fine line between love and hate..or it's hard to sometimes know where hate ends and love begins or vice versa...x.

When you go through a divorce it does often get nasty, the person you once loved isn't the same person, they will try and hurt you any way they can so they can make themselves look innocent. Man has free will to do as he chooses, heaven has nothing to do with it. Sometimes I think people feel that they have to do mean things to someone they are leaving, because if they didn't they might just have to face reality and if they faced the truth they would have to take blame.

Spouses do un imaginable cruel things when they want out of a marriage, things they don't even need to do maybe to prove to the new love that they are sincere.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.