Is a girl stupid for dating an ugly guy even if she's hot?

Teenage boys can be really cruel. Don't listen to them. When did you ever ask them for their opinion?

What right do they have to insult you? Guys who do that typically are either so insecure that they feel like they have to insult others (even if they know their insults are not true) to make themselves feel good, or they are so drunk with testosterone that they can't think clearly. What I'm about to tell you is my own experience.

OK so I am part Italian so I look ethnic; and I grew up in the South, in an area populated largely by people of Anglo-Saxon/Scotch-Irish, French/German descent - "ethnic" Europeans were pretty rare around there. So I looked different from everyone else, and generally the guys at my (small) school were attracted to the girls with a heritage similar to theirs, not to me. Some men have looked at me and immediately commented that I am beautiful; some guys stare endlessly at me; other men have responded to me like I am ugly.

One guy said I could be a model; someone else said I am not attractive. I used to take it really to heart and feel very hurt and insecure if men rejected me; but I have learned that beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. This is not just a cliche - it really is proven.

Have you ever seen a dating or newly married couple and wondered what on earth what on the earth the guy saw in the girl? What is beautiful to one guy may be ugly to another. I may be beautiful to one guy and ugly to another.

There are men who are drawn to women with athletic bodies (very thin but not curvy), there are men who are drawn to curvy women, there are men who are drawn to women that some people would label as overweight. There are men who are drawn to "exotic" good looks; there are men who like cute girls, men who like hot girls they can show off, men who like women about whom I cannot find any beauty. Men's preferences vary; they do not all drool over the same models either - they may think one is attractive and another is not.

NOT EVEN MODELS are universally liked by all guys. (If models get that kind of treatment, what about ordinary people like us?) Or take someone like Brad Pitt. There are women who think he's the hottest guy on the planet.

Personally, I don't find him attractive. Good looks really are a matter of personal taste. I say all that to say that - just because the guys at your school say they don't consider you attractive, that doesn't mean that other guys will not.

The guys at my school didn't like me, but guys I met later on did. Your friends and parents think you are pretty; they are NOT the only ones...give it some time and things will change. You will meet guys who will consider you attractive.

Remember what happened to me. And you are still growing up. People develop and change as they grow up...and the way you look is gradually changing.

If you don't like the way you look now, don't worry, it's not forever. For now, just "consider the source" when these guys insult you - anyone who would insult someone else and say something that hurtful is a JERK. Who cares what jerks think?

(Besides, they may not REALLY think that - it may just be that they are trying to put you down so they can feel better about themselves.) Their opinion does not matter. The opinion of the people who love you - your parents and friends - is what really matters. And the opinion of God matters the most.

He loves you. Jesus "loved you and gave Himself for you." He cares so much about you that He died for you - how many friends would give up their life for you?

That is how much you matter to Him. Who cares what some immature guys at your school think, when the God of the Universe considers you that important? I really hope this helps.

I DO know how you feel - by experience - and I am sorry you are feeling so hurt.

ME TOO! Omg I know exactly what you mean. Just keep your head held high.

I just try to think positive and get through every day without worrying about getting a bf or anything. It'll happen when its meant too. Trust me.

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