Don't beat yourself over it. Mingle and be you:) you'll find people who just "get you.
No. Gemini is your SUN sign. Sun has nothing to do with how you relate to others.
Sun indicates how you need to relate to yourself IF you are going to feel whole and content with who you are ... when Sun is in Gemini, the person needs to be objective and gather all sorts of information from all sources in an attempt to understand life as much as possible. Don't do that, and you won't feel whole or content with who you are. It is other planets that indicate how you relate to others.
Venus is our need to relate, both as friends and as lovers. Mercury is our need to think and communicate. And there are 7 other planets to consider too.
None of these are necessarily in Gemini . They could be in just about any sign (except Mercury and Venus which never appear very far from the Sun, since they lie within the orbit of Earth). The 11th house is primarily about our friendships.
The sign on the cusp of your 11th house describes your approach to friendships. The planet that rules that sign, by looking at its sign, house and aspects, gives more information about what you like about friendships and how you interact with friends. And any planets IN the 11th house add more information about how you handle friendships.
The sign ON the cusp o fthe 11th.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.