Is it ok for a transgendered person not to tell their partner that they're transgendered?

I feel a bit more comfortable with other transpeople, but I won't object to a cisgendered partner either.

If so, then as long as the person is sane, I don't care whether they are transgendered or not. I base my preference on more important things, like whether they are kind, compassionate, open-minded and accepting. As charming as they can be (cough) I'll leave the hate-filled polemicists to compete for each other.

EDIT: Paula, you are too kind.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.