I would use the internal modifier for the setter. This makes it only accessible inside the assembly. If the CustomerUserControl is in another assembly then you can use the InternalsVisibleToAttribute.
As far as I know, there's no way to apply what you're asking for directly to a property setter, since it doesn't know where the call initiated from. However, you could cobble something together using mutator methods.
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