I suppose if anyone has the "right" it's the spouse. I never asked. He never asked.
It doesn't matter. I did ask about STDs, as did he. Either one of us would have agreed to be tested, but it didn't go that far.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.