It just seems whatever situation you're in, the opposite seems better?

Assuming this is in reference to your last question... I know. When I was married, I thought of so many things that I'd wished I'd done while I was single. All the things that I'd taken for granted and now that I was in such a permanent thing as marriage, I'd never get to do.

Then my divorce came along, and I'm sitting here single... and it's not nearly as great as I thought it would be... and I wish I were in a relationship with somebody else. Now watch, when I'm dating again, I'll wish all these things about the single life again. Bah!

Such is life. When we have something, we only see the negative about it... and when we lose something, we only remember the positive about it. Instead of focusing on what you wish you had, just focus on what you do have.

Take it one day at a time, and it'll all fall into place.

So true I guess it human nature the whole grass is greener on the other side thing.

Yes, but be careful what you wish for. You might get it. Once a guy I knew well, griped and complained about the administration here on Maui.

Finally, he ran for Mayor. He won. Served him right.

If not "better", then at least attractive to us.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.