The first and only step is to shut up and let her think she won.. hehe.
Saying "relax" to a woman is like saying "we need to have a long talk about our feelings" to a man. It's not a good ice breaker. Contrary to the postings here :( I *have* most definitely agreed with a man that he won an argument with me, on more than 1 occasion.
I wouldn't want to be with a man, who wasn't righter than me sometimes... so I can learn from him *too*! Just so long as he's smart enough not to start with "relax"!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.