To gain control and be the boss, some of them most likely got beaten growing up, its stupid.
Those who do that are not worth the title men they are low life bullies and do not deserve their wife/girlfriend.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.