Most of the night, I dreamed about boys I dated in past, now I'm married to great guy... why I still dreamed about them?

1 This is normal. People often wonder how their lives would have been different if they had married someone else. Sometimes it's a sign of boredom in their relationships.

After a certain amount of time people get into a rut in their lives. Thinking about people you went out with provides a little excitement in your life. It doesn't mean you're necessarily going to cheat (although some people do dwell on this too much and do have affairs with old friends).

It may just mean you need some excitement in your life.

2 You can't control what you dream. You can control how you act.

3 Maybe you wonder what it would be like if you married them. You can make any marriage great by just validating the person you are with.

4 There is nothing in the ceremony or vows that erases the memories in your brain. The ones that were attractive will remain. At night when you go to sleep, the filter shuts down and allows the pathways to fire at wil, causing memories to surface, sometimes from long ago.

That isn't a problem. Enjoy the dreams, and contemplate what you liked. During the day when you live in the world with others is the time for the filter to focus on now and the future.Do no harm to others by mixing historical thoughts with living a good life.

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