I think you would be happier if you concentrated on your own life and what you want from it rather than his life and trying to control him. In case you haven't noticed you can't make anyone else do anything, not even him. He already knows how you feel, and from your own description there is no indication that he is going to be what you want.
Stop trying to turn a zebra into an antelope, because an antelope is not better than a zebra, it's just different. If you would rather have a antelope, go find one and let the zebra have his own life - the way he is happy living it. Do it now before you have kids with someone so inappropriate for your needs.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls. I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. He never meets up with them, though.
I know he loves me because he told me first and he is a genuine person, but I hate feeling like I’m sharing him.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.