My brother pulled my sister down in the shower by her leg and her 'area' is now red, swollen and sore?!?

You might have a pinched nerve somewhere. You could try seeing a chiropractor. This isn't exactly what you have but you could look through some other videos to get some ideas https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPwBe3Co...

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