My daughter ran away a year ago. she wants to reconcile, but she's living in sin with her negro boyfriend. what do I do?

My daughter ran away a year ago. She wants to reconcile, but she's living in sin with her negro boyfriend. What do I do?

Please help....having tough time dealing with this. Asked by ChristianJesus 43 months ago Similar questions: daughter ran year ago reconcile she's living sin negro boyfriend Society > Religion & Spirituality.

Similar questions: daughter ran year ago reconcile she's living sin negro boyfriend.

And, I will try very hard to respect your views here, however, living with someone without the benefit of marriage is very common these days - even when the couple is not of the same race. Do you know the man she is living with? How does he treat her?

Is he a decent hard working guy? Bottom line is this. Your daughter is trying to make amends with you.

If you want her to be a part of your life, then you are going to have to accept her, her living arraingements, and her boyfriend. If you put demands on her - for example telling her she has to change how she is living, then there is not going to be any reconcilation. You cannot put conditions on your love for her.So, at least to me, the answer is simple.

Accept her and her new lifestyle, or run the risk of losing her. I am sorry you have having what to deal with what is a difficult issue for you. BTW- The correct term is Black, not Negro.

My voices tell me that he's gay, so you don't have anything to worry about.

She is obviously an adult so you have to deal with her as an adult. You don’t have to approve of her lifestyle to approve of her. Did Jesus tell Zacchaeus "Quit being a tax collector, then I’ll come to your house?

" No. He met him exactly where he was. As painful as it is to watch your daughter live a lifestyle you abhor, you will do your faith (and jesus) harm by being hostile.

Let her know that although you don’t approve of what she’s doing you love her and would like to get a chance to know the person she has chosen to spend so much time with.Be kind to him. Reach out in Christian love. I would not let them spend the night in your home, because that’s your home and your boundaries should be respected.

What they do outside of your home is theirs to deal with. Your job is to love your daughter and to try to get to know and love this person who could very well be your son in law soon. Let the holy spirit work on the other stuff.

Your obviously a person of faith, if there ever was a time to trust that God is in control it is now. For you to let your personal fears and prejudices poison your relationship with your daughter you would communicate a distrust of God and his almighty power. If you trust him, love your daughter and let him handle this stuff that you’re having a tough time dealing with..

Be very, very grateful that your daughter wants to reconcile. With your attitude, you're going to lose her if you're not careful.Is that really what you want? .

1 This is a very tough question to answer. Why did she run away in the first place? Do you want to reconcile with her?

If so what type of rules would you like to enforce? How old is your daughter? Are you upset because she is living with someone unmarried or because he is a negro?

I hope it works out for you and your daughter ChristianJesus. Life is too short not to have contact with the ones you love.

This is a very tough question to answer. Why did she run away in the first place? Do you want to reconcile with her?

If so what type of rules would you like to enforce? How old is your daughter? Are you upset because she is living with someone unmarried or because he is a negro?

I hope it works out for you and your daughter ChristianJesus. Life is too short not to have contact with the ones you love.

A negro boy ran from a plantation to return as the sheriff and had an affair with the daughter of the plantation owner" "Religion & Spirituality.

A negro boy ran from a plantation to return as the sheriff and had an affair with the daughter of the plantation owner.

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