My ex broke up with me 2 months ago but has kept in touch since. Why? (pls opinions wanted)?

Well, you certainly broke up for a good reason. He's not a very nice kid. And if he's running around telling everyone he was just with you for sex then what does it say of him?

I don't think many people will be too concerned over it and I believe neither should you be. After all, if you try to put out the fires he's starting 1) you will get burned; 2) you only fan the flames. The best way to silence what he's saying is to do nothing.

The more attention you give it the more attention you bring to it. And the more people think maybe what he's saying is true. So it's best to just leave it alone and forget about it.

And I'm also certain he is just trying to get back at you or save face. To go around saying "She meant nothing to me" is his way to ease his own shame and pain. He lost someone he once thought highly of.

To have lost you is a failure on his part. It may have been helpful if you would have shared with us why you broke up with him, other than to say "things happened and I wasn't happy." Regardless of why you broke up with him, the fact remains that you weren't happy in that relationship.

Also helpful would have been to know your age. You sound mature but also in school still, so I'm thinking you're a senior in HS. But if not - if you're younger, say 15, then it's logical to assume that relationships that begin at that age don't last.

Whatever the case, remain focused on your education. It's the foundation to your entire future. Do well and your future will be good.

Neglect it and your future will be one of struggling from paycheck to paycheck. Unless you marry a rich guy - which happens in Disney movies and rarely in real life. Your education will make all the difference in the world.

It will shape how you see the world, and you WILL see it in entirely different ways with an education and maturity. So stay in school. An education will never leave you.

Nor will it talk behind your back. Hope this helps.?J? Proud father of FIVE girls.

WAY TOO MANY YEARS experience.

He just show you why the relationship didn't work out - he still very immature but the most important thing now is that at least you know he no good - he can say whatever - what goes around comes around - just chuck your memories of him in the bin and keep moving on.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.