ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH... Dump his *** and come have a sit on Captain Barbossa's Kraken sized dick!
He obviously doesn't care. Have a talk with him first that women love to be looked after and needed and given orgasms and that sometimes its not about him getting off asap but it's about you. Plan B.
Strap him down and use him for an orgasm without giving him one. Plan C. All else fails maybe tell him that this relationship can't work if all you think about is yourself.
Sorry. And walk away.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.