My girlfriend loves her first lover but do not want to go to him. she wants us to break up. but ilove her very much what?

If she wants to break up with you, then she wants to go with him. You don't really have a choice here. If she wants to go, she will go.

There is nothing you can do.

Cry, beg, plead, and act completely distraught. The ladies just love it when a guy gets all desperate and clingy. Have you considered putting up some billboards all over town declaring your undying love for her?

Who could resist such a display of devotion? .

Move on darling...as long as you remain on the fence you won't be completely happy. Not to mention...she wants to break up...enough said.

If she wants to break up with you, you're broken up. She doesn't require your agreement or consent.It takes two people to be in a relationship, it only takes one to break up.

If you love someone who's in love with someone else then let them go. You deserve someone who will love you and you alone. I realize this may hurt but at least you found out where her true feelings are before the relationship got more serious.

Good luck to you. Peace, BosM .

You love her, she doesn't love you, and wants to break up. WHY do you want her to be miserable just so you can be happy? That's not love.

We can't always get what we want, and this is one of those situations. Let her go, .

If she really wants to break up, then I don't think you can change your mind. As much as it hurts, the saying rings true "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours". And if she doesn't come back, just remember that you deserve better than someone who's always thinking of someone else.

Listen to this song. Originally sang by Bonnie Raitt, but nicely done by Bon Iver. I do understand and feel terrible for you.Be/vp-bPAKLfx4.

Get away from her and find a new girlfriend who can make up her mind.

Let her go. If she's in love with someone else, you are better off without her.

She wants us to break up" makes "but ilove her very much" completely irrelevant. You cannot make a person love you. Shoot, didn't you ever watch "Bruce Almighty"?

Tho I won't necessarily recommend it, it had some very good lines, including this that speaks to your situation: "Bruce: How do you make so many people love you without affecting Free Will? God: snorts Heh, welcome to my world, son. If you come up with an answer to that one, let me know."She has a free will exactly like you have a free will.

She does not wish her will to match yours; so leave. Com/Bruce-Almighty-Widescreen-Jim-Carrey/dp/B0000AKCKI.

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