I can only guess. Maybe he took it as an insult. Maybe he thinks that you are looking for easier ways to get him off without putting in the work.
If I were into perverse acts, I would probably see the gift as something good. But since I would rather use my woman's body to please me, the fleshlight is out the window.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.