My husband doesn't satisfy me, and I now see sex as a chore.?

A wedding is a legal ceremony for 2 people to get married, so you can't get married without one. There's different types of weddings. The ceremony is not the expensive part of things, the reception is.

Overall you need to have an open and honest conversation about what is important to each of you in how you get married and find some compromise. A wedding doesn't have to be big and expensive to be nice and special to you. He seems kinda immature on marriage in general, it seems like he's totally dismissing something that seems important to you to save a few bucks?

Does it have to be "his way or no way"?

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