My wife 8 month pregnant she is very abusive mentaly and verbely and she threat with divorce all the time I work 2 jobs?

My wife 8 month pregnant she is very abusive mentaly and verbely and she threat with divorce all the time I work 2 jobs I married my wife 1 year ago we have a step-son and she is 8 month pregnant she is very abusive to me and her son she she is very lazy even before she got pregnant no cooking no cleaning no laundry nothing. I am the one who cook clean and doing laundry she told me she dosn't want that baby and I feel I don't love her any more she has a DSS charge one of her friends called on her after she sees her treating her son in abusive way my question is shoul I stay with her for the baby or just leave Asked by medo30 9 months ago Similar questions: wife month pregnant abusive mentaly verbely threat divorce time work jobs Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: wife month pregnant abusive mentaly verbely threat divorce time work jobs.

13 months ago, you came here complaining about this woman, when you had not married her yet. You knew what she was like, and you married her anyway. Now you two are going to have a child, and you want to run out on her and your child.Lovely.

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You wouldn't be doing your child any favors subjected it to a woman who is so mentally disturbed and negative. Children pick up the mannerisms of the adults they are around. Don't let her ruin three lives.

Leave her and file for full custody of the child. There is no virtue in martyrdom. You will have a child to consider and the well being of that child should come first.Be responsible and get the hell out of there.

Build a case against her with as much documentation as possible. Video her if you must, but she has to somehow be recognized in court as an unfit mother. You owe it to your child.

I would stay until the baby is born and I would take my child and leave her. Make sure that your document everything and it is also a good idea if others can see how she is to you and to her child. NO you should not live your life with someone like that.

Okay, so you're very unhappy and pretty much know that if you left, you'd never see your children. So your unasked question is how to wrangle some control in this relationship. IF she is breaking the law, especially IF she is abusing the children, you should deal with that, first.

She really can be arrested and removed from the equation, giving you custody, and you can then work up daycare, etc. While you're working. You seem to have a handle on the responsibilities, which she doesn't want.In other words, you need to stay because the children need YOU, not her. If she doesn't want the responsibilities, fine; let her remove herself from them.

Sounds like you both need counselling. If she doesn't go for it, you go. Otherwise after the baby is born you divorce and take custody of the baby.

You might be saving the baby's life by doing that. Make sure she is supervised when she has the baby visits.

If you're religious, I would recommend that you kill her, the baby, and yourself, and do this planet a huge favor.

Wait until the baby is born and see if you can get divorced/custody of baby. Maybe her hormones are off and she is not feeling well...not lazy.

Sounds like--She was a screwball from the start, and now with all the raging hormones she's nutty as a fruitcake..Sounds like manic-depressive.. The prognosis is grim, you'd have to re-parent her..

My wife 8 month pregnant she is very abusive mentaly and verbely and she threat with divorce all the time" "people that are in abusive relationships and can not focus in school/work.

My wife 8 month pregnant she is very abusive mentaly and verbely and she threat with divorce all the time.

People that are in abusive relationships and can not focus in school/work.

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