My wife was flirting and had feelings toward another man I caught them chatting online and?

I think you should seek couples counseling. You need a third party to get to the bottom of it. It's not fair to you to just roll with it.

If she loves you then she should go with you and talk to someone about it. I wish you luck!

Hurtconfused. This happens most of the time to everyone..Its going to take time, but try to forgive her..If you accuse her, its only going to make it worse, and you don't want to risk hurting your marriage further. Some times this happens because of our past childhood experiences .

Possibly one of our parents fooled around, and it left us with trust issues with the opposite sex.

I know I've been there and I understand how you feel. Its important for both women and men to have friends of the opposite sex... Have trust in other.. Take your life moment to moment... I wish you only happiness..

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.