Need some advice, weird sexual attraction.?

If you're not attrcted phsyically to anyone. At all. You're probably a black ace.

Full explanation: aces have bfs/gfs just like the sexual community does. EVERYONE wants a companion...we aces just go about it differently. We are emotional not really physical.

Also contray to pop belief, aces are perfectly capable of feeling horny. We're just not wired to do anything about it/about it as much....as sexuals. (like for example I feel something during the periods time..but I don't "need outside help" about it.) we attract emotionally more often than not, sometimes but rarely physical attraction comes afterward.

We aces mostly satisfy such physical attractions by cuddling. Unlike the sexual lot...we don't NEED it but we are capable of it of course just like the next mammal. Asexuality also occurs in nature...& no I am NOT referring to "asexually reproductive" either.

Dif politically correct term there. It has been recorded in dolphins, deer & a few other MAMMAL animals who just hang out but don't mate. (or rarely mate.

They can skip a cycle or 2 & not care) ace is a combo-orienation in that its hetro-ace/gay-ace/bi-ace as well as a "rare hetro/gay/bi/-ace" (the ones who get into some sex but can do with out for long periods) & our flag from top to bottom is black/gray/white/purple for varying degrees of emotional vs. physical passion (with black I do believe being the least physical AND emotional altogether) we are exactly opposite the sexual community in that we are turned off by sexuality instead of turned on. On the other hand, we are exactly LIKE the sexual community in that we can stil lbe straight/gay/bi & still want companionship...just act upon it differently. This means for example: im a bi-ace in the black/gray I think.

(black for stragners/grey for close friends) I see beauty in both men & women but would never have sex with either. I prefer men a LITTLE more than women & have a bf. I also have what I call "lesbian moments" when I see a cute girl, most times its usually what I call a "hollywood crush" for instance, tonks of harry potter makes me think "lesbian" for a few seconds.

Yet zach quinto (heroes/star trek) puts me back on the straight. I would never have sex with either of them if I met them though, this would put me in the black but...i have a bf & like to cuddle a lot...which I think puts me more gray. Some aces accept a polygomas relationship if they get involved with a sexual.

He/she might still like the sexual person..but those involved can agree on a suitable man or woman for the sexual thats actually active & the ace can still hang around.. maybe this will help: ive known since I was 14...well didn't know the TERMS but knew I wouldnt be into sex like most of my friends. Im 30 in a couple months now. Still virgin too (as is the bf...one year older)...dont rightly care.

If you want more info...or get to know other aces, come join us in our asexual group & event on facebook. Feel free to chat/add any of us. (the event is mine so its easy to find me if you want :) ).

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