You sound like you're a really nice young woman and you don't want to hurt his feelings. However, you need to protect yourself. It's not common for a man 2 1/2 times your age to want to hang out with you just as friends.
I believe that he has some issues to work on....but that's not your responsibility. It sounds like he wants to be more than friends with you. Good for you that you looked him up, but sex offenders don't always use their real name when they apply for jobs.
He also might be new to the area and not listed in your area's database. Kiddo, you've got to protect yourself. Don't take any more of his calls.
Block his number from your phone. Don't go to the cafeteria any more without bringing some one with you. Tell your room mate and your friends and even your residential coordinator about this.
Don't be embarrassed or feel like you have to protect him. You have to take care of you. By letting everyone know what's going on, you can be sure that if something were to happen to you, people will know where to start looking.
Don't give him any more info about you....please. Tina.
Here's a saying that fits - There's no fool like an old fool - and don't I know it - I'm 76. :) What can this young lady do, or say, that will gently put lonely old guy in his place without hurting his feelings or making him come face to face with what a silly old fool he's been? Sh**, I don't know.
I really do appreciate your sensitivity regarding the old goat. If you don't mind telling a fib, maybe I've got a workable idea. " George, one time you told me if I ever had a problem you'd be more than willing to help me if you could.
Do you still feel that way?" ..... "Well, here's my problem. I've got my eyes on a really neat guy and am really trying hard to make a good impression on him. But I made what looks at this point like a big mistake.
I told a friend of mine how nice you've been to me and how you've called me at different times trying to be of help. But instead of thinking you are a really nice man, like I know you are, she's told the guy I'm trying to impress that I've got a thing going for you. Personally, I think she's got a very dirty mind, but that doesn't help me with the guy.
So if you would, please not call me anymore. I'm really sorry, and I can't tell you how much I really do appreciate all you've done for me, but I need your help on this. Would you do that for me, please?"
That's the best I can come up with at this point. Good luck.
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