Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you believe it's true or do people deserve a 2nd chance?

I used to give second chances until every guy I gave a second chance to did it again! I honestly find it rare that a cheater changes. I firmly believe in the saying a Leopard can only change it's spots for so long...If a guy cheats on me I will most likely break it off...but I will keep an eye on the situation if I really liked the guy...if he keeps calling me, or wanting to be with me I will keep an eye out if he is running around while he is telling me those things.

If he is running around, although he claims he wants only me then I say forget it. If I decide to take him back, he is on a probation period...if he screws up once, I am gone, for good and there is no discussion to be had. Hope that makes sense!

Well for me I gave several chances so, I guess once a cheater always a cheat. For a long time I blamed myself for so many reasons, but once it was all over, I heard of him cheating on his new wife so I guess this all stand for real. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!

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People do deserve a second chance but if you do not know why they did it then you will not know if the behavior is correctable or not. If the person is a player and just like going after people for the chase then definitely not; or if they cannot say no to someone else advances then avoid these people. The best predictor of pass future behavior is pass behavior.

In my own opinion, I think not all people who cheat will always be a cheater. Every person is different, unique, and capable of change to become the best or worst. And this is a case to case basis.

There are some person who will admit and accept the fact that they have done something wrong, become remorseful and strive hard to right the wrongs they have done because they realized what is important to them. But there are also those who have cheated and find it hard to straighten their path or change for the better. There are many factors to consider especially if the person itself is not willing to change and what he says is only on the tip of their tongue.

These kind of person has some issues in life that was not yet resolved so they find it hard to change. For example, a cheating husband. There are some cases where the husband is addicted to internet porn.

This kind of addiction is like a heroin addiction that they have to constantly have sex no matter who the partner is to get that kind of "high" brought by that addiction. And thus, change is impossible for this kind of person unless they are willing to seek help from professionals. So, I believe that every person is capable of change.

If there is a will from him, then he will find ways to correct the wrong he has done.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.