Since she is your wife and you have nothing to hide, you shouldnt have tried to block her from checking on you. I agree with you that she shouldnt do this, if you have never given her a reason to distrust, but she is your wife and a person who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. Keep going to your psychiatrist and work the problems out within your family, don't bring yahoo users, who have no idea into this.
If you have told your service provider, they should keep your information private. If she has your passwords, then there is only so much they can do. I don't know how illegal or legal it is, because you 2 are married, and usually married couples can access each others accounts/property.
Does she maybe have trust issues, because of something someone else did to her? I had trust issues from an ex years ago. Maybe if you show her, for her own comfort she would feel better.
My ex bro in law was in the army and his wife was very strange - untrustworthy. He showed her everything needed and proved that he wasn't cheating and finally she believed it. Maybe this would work.
Good luck.
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