Wa alaykum assalam Quran 17:9 translation Indeed, this Qur'an guides to that which is most suitable and gives good tidings to the believers who do righteous deeds that they will have a great reward. Quran 2:165 translation And yet, among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals to Him. They love them as they should love Allah .
But those who believe are stronger in love for Allah . And if only they who have wronged would consider that when they see the punishment, they will be certain that all power belongs to Allah and that Allah is severe in punishment. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GgT3AQdv3... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSEsUZIT6... You're supposed to be obedient to allah as per quran 58:11 translation You who have belief.
When you are told: ‘Make room in the gathering,’ then make room and Allah will make room for you! And when it is said, ‘Get up’, get up. Allah will raise in rank those of you who have belief and those who have been given knowledge.
Allah is aware of what you do. Quran 4:34 translation Men are qawwam (have charge of, are protectors, maintainers) of women in that Allah hath made them superior in strength (or advantages), and in that they expend of their wealth (in support of women). So virtuous women are devoted (or obedient), careful (in their husband's) absence, as Allah has cared for them.
But those whose perverseness you fear, admonish them (first) and (then) remove them from your bedchambers, and (lastly) chastise them lightly (or punish by showing disapproval, withdrawing affection, separating) ; but if they obey you, then do not seek a way against them; verily, Allah is Exalted and Great. If your management (qawam) is crap, get new management, or give it training.
Men who actually pray and are religious are much more likely to be kind to their wives. Then there are those men who beat their wives and treat them like second class citizens they are not religious they are just hypocrites.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.