Oh I know this situation to well.....Let me put it like this.. She wants a reaction from things like this. She wants to know if you notice things. When she said that "you can come too" that was a ay of saying "i wanna hang with you...please say stay with me tonight."
That's why she feels you don't care. Really and truthfully speaking, she would have rather spent the whole night with you than her girls. Otherwise she would have not freaked out when you said hang with the girls.
True you want you time and she wants her. But have you told her that and then think about it this way: do you spend quality time with your girl as much as you or she would like? You can still spend time with her and still hang with the guys.
If the relationship isn't that deep, then maybe you should tell her about you wanting to hang with the guys. But on the other hand, if it deep, you might want to tell yourself that this girl is some special and you don't want her to slip through your fingers. Spend every moment you can with her.
What if an attractive Chris Brown type of guy hitted on your girl at the club that night and got her number while you laughing it up with your guys? You have to think. But hey.
Im talking from the knowledge of this girl being really special to you. But whether she is or not you still need to talk to her about that situation. Would you rather be chilling with her at your crib having fun and KNOWING who she is REALLY with or let her hang with her girl AFTER SHE OFFERED YOU TO COME AND YOU REJECTED and let a possibility linger in the air that another guy will spot your girl and want to dance and "chit-chat" with her.
You know...numbers get exchanged through chit-chat....Check your game man...Before it checks you....She can be a completely faithful woman....but as a young lady myself, we all have the same mindset that a boyfriend would rather get some nookie or cuddle up with his lady than with some guys. Think about it. She wouldn't freak out if she cared about spending time with you man.
Honestly, it sounds like she was trying to get a reaction out of you when she asked if she could go to a party. You're right, it shouldn't be a big deal, and it's wonderful that you trust her enough. She might have thought that you wouldn't care if guys at the party were hitting on her, even though she knows you trust her.
My boyfriend and I trust each other at parties, and encourage the other to have fun. It really isn't a big deal. In my opinion, it sounds like she was more focused on seeing how you would react to her being in an environment where she was around guys who would hit on her than really going to the party and having fun.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.