Should a boy at 15/16 lose his virginity?

Sweetie you still have your dignity, having sex with one person makes you neither a slapper nor a slag. Your mum will never hate you, she may use the phrase "I'm disappointed" but she also has to be realistic that her daughter is turning into a young woman and you cannot stay a virgin forever. It's unfortunate how you lost your virginity, and also sad that you felt pressured to do so, but there are not many girls if they are honest who lose their virginity in the "perfect way" I bet if you asked your mum she possibly wasn't in the most ideal situation or age when she lost hers either.

Maybe now is not the right time to tell her if she is poorly, but you will know when the time is right, when she is feeling stronger, and the relief you will feel once you tell her will be amazing. Especially when you realize she may be shocked but the thought of hating you will never even enter her thoughts. At least if you tell her, she can also help you make sure that when you are ready to become properly sexually active you are protected in the right way.

You haven't done anything wrong, so don't punish or label yourself. You made a choice that turned out not to be right for you, but it's not the end of the world. Good luck xx.

You don't have to tell her at all. I think the other person is right, what would you gain from telling her? If you tell her now then your mom will still love you no matter what but she will never look at you the same way again.

But she still won't think your a slag because it's not like your sleeping with multiple guys, you only did one guy. If you do feel you need to tell her wait until you are ready to, don't feel pressured to tell her so soon, let the whole experience sink in first.

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