Should a father have to pay more child support because the mother lives with bum that won't help pay bills?

It's a side effect of this sad circumstance. It's obviously his financial responsibility, as THEY are attempting to reimburse him. My best suggestion, to get him this check, would be to have a person he trusts, or respects, inform him of this situation.

They should tell him to grow-up, and behave in the best interests of his child. How he feels about his ex, needs to be secondary to the well being of his child. The child is an innocent in this mess.

The child should not suffer for Dad's stupidity, and childishness.

Whoever is designated in the decree. In most of the cases that I know of, both parents are responsible for paying 1/2 of all uninsured medical.

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