Should a guy ask a girl out or should the girl ask the guy out?

Next time a guy asks you that, just grin at him and say, "I never kiss and tell." So what that you don't like it and it's cliche - it's also SMART and it's TRUE, because a lady never does that. We should never discuss our past romances, and any guy who asks about it is a jerk.

Just tell him that you never kiss and tell, but say it with a sexy grin that will leave him wondering. THAT should end the discussion forever. If he keeps bringing it up, then it means one thing only: He doesn't respect you enough to respect your privacy, and that you should stop seeing him.

END OF STORY. When a man doesn't respect a 'no means no' type of response and keeps pressing the issue, it's annoying, and it won't get any better the closer he gets. If anything, the more you give, the more he will take until the phrase 'you give an inch and they take a mile' starts to take on a whole new meaning for you.

It's VERY important that you learn this now, because you're very naive when it comes to the male mind. They're puzzle solvers. They're task-oriented, horny, hairy, beasty creatures, and when they get on the scent of something they want (like, say ... to know your romantic past), they will not stop until they either figure out the puzzle, or another puzzle or scent attracts their attention.

If you tell him that you never kiss and tell ... then the new puzzle will be 'ok, fair enough,' and then he'll try new ways to break you. If he's smart, he'll just let you keep control of the reins, and let you reveal yourself WHEN YOU ARE READY TO. If he keeps seeing you, even without sex, then you know he's a keeper.

HOWEVER, if you shut him down and tell him nothing ... and he disappears, then you know you were right for not saying anything, because he only wanted you for sex. See, the only way to keep them in line and keep them coming around, is to NOT give in or put out. THEN you know that they want you for more than just your body, or for what they can get from you.

It's a fine line that we women have to walk, but you can't do spill the beans and expect him to respect you. On another note, W T F are you waiting for? A kiss is just a kiss - it's not a commitment, it's not a promise of anything serious developing.

It's just a taste - it's not a whole meal, so get it over with already! The assertion that you've been waiting for the right guy ... doll, if you don't relax, you'll be waiting for the right guy until you're 84 with gray hair. JUST DO IT!

P.S. There's a H U G E difference between being honest ... and keeping your privacy. You owe him nothing in the way of telling him your past, or telling him anything that you're not comfortable with. He's not your husband!

He's barely someone you're dating! You do not have to say anything if you don't want to. You owe him n o t h I n g.

WAIT until you're ready to talk about it ... and in the meantime ... KISS HIM!

Well, same thing happened with me & my ex boyfriend. I just told him the truth & he wasn't critical or anything despite the fact that he's had a lot of experience with girls. It'll be fine (.

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