Should I bring my abusive wife to stay with me here in Scandinavia or I stay with her in India( with my children) whom I love most?

It appears to me she wants the child support but, is blocking you from seeing your son. Simple fact she can't have her cake and eat it to. Unless there is a good reason for blocking you from seeing your son, I would find a lawyer and sue for joint custody or look at other options meanwhile, pay the child support and keep copies of visits and other mail and other correspondence with your son so you have a paper trail for your court case.

PS the current man in her life has nothing to do with your parental responbilities to care for your son.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.