Should I let my child go with her father even though we weren't married and paternity wasn't granted?

What does that mean, "paternity wasn't granted" If it wasn't granted then he is not the father of your child and he has no rights to the child. If paternity has not been yet established, then that is a horse of another color. My standard answer is this, why not?

Has the father done something to make you think he will take off with the child, does he treat the child badly or is he violent or abusive? If any of these are true then certainly you should limit his contact, however, if he is a loving and caring father, that has given you no cause to doubt him in the past, then by all means, children need and deserve the love of both their parents. Marriage has nothing to do with anything.

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