Should I stop my girlfriend to stop sending dirty texts if it distracts from my work?

Ask her to stop. You don't have to be rude, but let her know that the nature of the texts are distracting and if you mess up at work, you could lose your job (and no one can afford to lose their job right now). Maybe set a rule that she can still send you those types of messages, but only when you're not at work or any other place that those kinds of things would be inappropriate (while visiting your family, for instance).

Say when you're out with the guys or are on your own for the night, then it would be ok. Draw a clear line. Tell her you want to be honest with her about this so that you can stop it before it becomes a problem.

Another tactic: If you don't need your cell phone to make or receive business calls on while you are at work, turn the phone on silent and put it where it won't distract you (in a pocket, bag, drawer that you don't open often) and let the messages roll in. Then, you can read them when you get off of work. Make sure she knows that you won't be responding, because you're at work, but you'll get to them as soon as you get off.

This way she doesn't take offense to not getting a reply, but knows that you simply can't see or use your phone while at work. If you do need to your cell phone, go with the first option! I've lost a job because I had a boyfriend that wouldn't leave me alone while I was at work and as a result my productivity dropped dramatically and I couldn't focus.

I broke up with the guy, but it was too late. The owner of the company and my immediate boss had already taken notice and I was eventually fired about 3 weeks after I broke up with the guy. Don't let this happen to you.

Talk to her ASAP.

Yes. And if your cell phone is provided by your company, they have the right to examine all your records-- so you wouldn't want to be using your phone for personal things of that nature. Sexting can be publicly embarassing as well if anyone else reads the texts.

I think she could take it good bad depending on how you communicate to her it's distracting you,if you tell how much you appreciate texts ,and still love her . She will understand but it might hurt her,but if you put to her way that's both understanding then it make her think of new ways to be dirty.

I believe that is probably a good idea. There is a time and a place, as they say. Although it is fun to play naughty, if it cuts into your productivity then it is actually harmful.

The same goes for drinking booze, as far as I’m concerned. Some of the best times can be had while we are a little tipsy, but you could lose your job for it very quickly if you are at the workplace. Very little difference in my opinion.

Yes, tell her it is distracting as much as you appreciate it. Either way she will probably take it badly, but what do you want she is a girl and she will be selfish. Thanks Mike!

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