I think it's cruel to deny a person, who vowed to spend the rest of their life with you...sex. If there is no physical attraction then why be in a relationship? Why not just stay friends?
Sex is necessary. I would be highly pissed/sexually frustrated if my spouse didn't want to.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.