Still in love with married man ex-lover who is now wanting a divorce. Is it a good idea to get back with him?

I doubt you're a serious factor in their break-up - seems it was headed that way with or without your help. Be firm - do NOT begin a romantic relationshuiop until those papers are signed and filed. It will only be messier if you don't, and it may well prove messy anyways.

Good for you for being smart about it. Just continue to tell him you're going to have to divorce first, and the, we have to take it slow.

You are right in holding back with caution. After all this guy is still living under the same roof with his wife and you have no way of knowing if he is indeed being truthful. But lets say that he is, so what, he still is not divorced.

And if you get involved with him you will be putting yourself in a vulnerable position. For now, try and not take anything he says seriously, because for one thing he is a married man, for another, he may be only trying to tell you what you want to hear. I doubt if he truly is in love with you so fast after seeing you.

This relationship did not work out in the past and there were reasons why it didn't, he choose her over you, now he is telling you he regrets that decision. Of course he is going to say that, he wants to say all the things he feels you want to hear. No, this does not sound like a good relationship for you to get involved in.

Not only that he is married, he does not sound to display respect or morals for the union he had with his wife by bashing her to you. Ask yourself, is this the type of guy you want? And I think your answer will be no.

Good luck to you!

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