This girl I know had her best friend kill himself... I need some advice. Help?

This girl I know had her best friend kill himself... I need some advice. Help? Here are the details... This girl and I have officially been on a few dates.

We were getting really close and had been talking a lot lately. We planned on me staying at her house for two nights but then last night her best friend killed himself even after telling her he didn't actually take anything... Apparently he lied to her so she wouldn't call the police. Now she cancelled all of our plans.

She called me crying and then later told me that she is living back with her mother until she moves into her new apartment. Next week she has her baby and won't see the guy in her life at that point due to protecting the child from random guys... Which I understand. Since this time.

Were barely talking. She apologizes to me for ignoring/ditching me but I don't want her even feeling that way. What can I do to help?

It's killing me just not talking or seeing her. Soonest I can see her I believe will be in two weeks... Minimum. Please offer advice.

Asked by Moniker 30 months ago Similar questions: girl friend kill advice Help Family.

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A friend in distress This time it is totally not about you - she needs her space and you cannot be the stand-in for her friend. She is really really going through a lot - wow, what a story. You cant be in charge of her feelings.

When you do get to see her/hear from her, you can judge where she is at and what she needs - if you have been close in communication, she will eventually come back if only to talk I suspect. Since you are new on the scene, you will no doubt go back to people who have a history with her just now. The major moves she seems to be making are indicative of an understandably traumatized person.

She knows you are there - don't press her for more.

The difficulty with answering your question is that humans are the ultimate variable. A tragic thing happens that both she is directly involved in (i.e. , partially responsible for) and which affects her directly (emotional reaction.) Thus, you, , are dealing with both guilt and grief.

The variable part is how long this woman will require to overcome those two demons. With some people, it's a few days. With other people, it's the entire life.

I read a brief description of a funeral of a guy who had just buried his child and one person sits next to him and give him all the "God's will" and "She's in a better place" phrases and he just sits until the guy leaves. Then another guy sits next to him and is silent, only talking when the grieving father asks him a question, and answering briefly. Otherwise, he merely sat with him.

The second guy was the one who comforted. The first one merely pestered. Being present doesn't mean doing anything else, unless asked.

1 I think you need to give her space right now. Let her know that if she needs support, even if it's just to talk, you'll be there for her any time - but give her the time and space she needs to grieve. Yes, you may lose her.

But I think you're more likely to lose her with a full-court press right now.

I think you need to give her space right now. Let her know that if she needs support, even if it's just to talk, you'll be there for her any time - but give her the time and space she needs to grieve. Yes, you may lose her.

But I think you're more likely to lose her with a full-court press right now.

3 Being at work; I can do nothing...But I will do just that. I'll keep my promise and call after work. If she doesn't answer I'll let her know I'm here if she needs me.Anytime.

I really doubt I'll lose her. Last night she even straight told me she's not going to vanish from my life. I thanked her... and trust that much.

I just wish I could personally do something more than wait.

Being at work; I can do nothing...But I will do just that. I'll keep my promise and call after work. If she doesn't answer I'll let her know I'm here if she needs me.Anytime.

I really doubt I'll lose her. Last night she even straight told me she's not going to vanish from my life. I thanked her... and trust that much.

I just wish I could personally do something more than wait.

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I'm not sure what my parents and family might say about this. Any Help?

I'm trying to find a book about a girl who is in love with a family friend. I can only remember that she kisses his car.

I have a friend who always gets envious with her colleague. How can I help her? What advice can I give her?

Near the end of the movie a girl tries to kill her friend with a gun the girl she tries to kill jumps in the ocean.

I need help finding a book: Its about a boy who won't talk to anybody but his friend who's a girl.

I'm a boy, and I want to be a girl. I'm not sure what my parents and family might say about this. Any Help?

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.