Treat my girlfriend like a princess but she treats me like crap?

Okay first off, I'm going to apologize to you first hand for saying anything that hurts or just flat out irks you. You need to leave her. You do not need ANYTHING like that in your life.

It will consume you and it will destroy you and everything you stand for. I have had a crazy ex girlfriend that put me through hell almost the whole almost two years we dated. Getting out of it will be tough.

It will even hurt you but the truth is, once you are gone, you are free and away from her. You cannot let her use you as a back up boyfriend or a crutch when things are not going so well for her. You also already know shes cheated on you before and the thought of her being with someone else AFTER you are not together with her should not be any of your concerns.

She is obviously missing out on someone who cares enough about her to go through all of this. That's on her. You need to focus on you no matter how much it sucks.

I don't know if this will help but I find some similarities in a way in our story that maybe you can somehow see what im trying to say... my boyfriend, whom ive been dating for almost two years now, broke up with me today. For one, He felt like he wasnt happy though some days he was filled with joy. He saidd that We should take some time apart to do things for ourselves and then we'll see.

The thought of him being touched by another woman, in any way, it tortures me. I can't sleep no matter how tired I am for I know, The instant I close my eyes the thought comes back. I decided to call him and his sweet voice explained to me that he doesn't want to come in between my academics.

Not right now, and especially with my family. He will not want to hurt me, nor will he ever will so he says. Yes it feels like hes hurting me but he's trying to help me.

What you have to do is do the same for you have to do something for yourself. The one thing I loved that he said was "If you remain, untouched and with no one else for a year..then its clearly stated how much it meant to you" and the same goes for him. Neither of you's can promise anything Life will go on no matter what decision you make.

Its a hard decision Its hard to go through She's done a hell of alot to you and thats something to take into consideration even if it is in thepast, why? Because it happened more than once. You're in college?

I'm sure your matured enough to see how this can affect you and her in both wways. Theres nothing wrong with taking some time off. It's not a breakup just take some time off, if you feel this way, like you want no other to touch her but yourself, then this feeling will only come from her, but would you rather let the time you have her now go to waste or wait it out and see what changes to make the time later on the best time that you've had while with her.

Hopefully you can see what im trying to say..

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.