Trust? What is that? How do you know you trust someone?

The belief they have your best interest at heart. Trust is defined as "reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc. , of a person or thing; confidence." You can emotionally love someone, but not trust them.

You can trust them, but not emotionally love them. When you trust a person, you believe that they have your best interest at heart. They wouldn't do something to hurt you for the fun of it, or for selfish gain.

You rely on them. You earn a person's trust by consistently proving yourself to them. You show them that you will not use them or take advantage of them.

You will not abuse their love or their generosity. You will think of them before acting.Re-earning a person's trust is done in the same way, except it take a much longer period of time. People are very different as to how easily they'll trust others -- some have been seriously hurt in the past and hesitate to trust again.

Others are very "trusting," even of those who don't deserve their URL2 matter the individual, you earn and re-earn people's trusts through reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc. , of a person or thing; confidence consistency of character -- you prove that you are trustworthy by your deeds. There is no way to assure a person that you are trustworthy outside of your actions. Broken trust can take years, even decades to repair.

It's a very sensitive, and even awkward, time for the two people involved. Here's the key: If you are the person who has broken another's trust, you have no right to expect anything from them, especially trust. You can only prove by your actions, words, and kept-promises that you are now on the "straight and narrow" and have no intention of straying again.

You cannot hold it against them if they search your life for flaws and wrongs -- you earned their distrust. Hard work, patience, perseverence, and consistent proof is the only way to regain the trust you don't deserve. Sources: personal experience Chosen7Stone's Recommendations Building Trust: In Business, Politics, Relationships, and Life Amazon List Price: $14.95 Used from: $6.85 Average Customer Rating: 4.0 out of 5 (based on 15 reviews) The Courage To Trust: A Guide To Building Deep And Lasting Relationships Amazon List Price: $14.95 Used from: $9.82 Average Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 (based on 9 reviews) Building Trust: How to Get It!

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Many people can forgive but not forget. Trust is such a fragile thing. If your partner has always trusted you completely...and you cheat on them...they may be able to forgive you but that little nagging caution is always in the back of their mind.

They will always be alert to a sign, a wrong word, a phone call, a letter, an email...anything that looks like they're going to get their heart zapped again. It could take years for them to relax and trust you completely again, or it may never happen. All depends on the person.

Parents seem to be more able to forgive and forget when their kids screw up, knowing that mistakes are all part of growing up and learning. Regaining the trust of a partner in a love relationship is much more difficult. One thing that may help would be to sit down with your partner when you're both relaxed and in a good mood, look them straight in the eye, admit what you did, offer no excuses for your action, just give them a sincere apology and a promise to never, ever do anything like that again.

Ask for their forgiveness. Tell them how much you care and how important they are to you. Ask them what you can do to regain their trust.

A sincere and heartfelt apology along with putting the entire issue out in the open, might just help your partner heal and forgive...it gives the issue some closure. Sources: My thoughts HELENofTROY's Recommendations Spying on Your Spouse: A Guide for Anyone Who Suspects a Partner Is Cheating Amazon List Price: $12.95 Used from: $2.75 Average Customer Rating: 3.5 out of 5 (based on 2 reviews) You Can Forgive a Cheating Spouse: One Woman's Triumph from a Perishing Marriage Amazon List Price: $14.95 Used from: $11.45 Average Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 (based on 1 reviews) 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse Amazon List Price: $14.95 Average Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 (based on 1 reviews) .

Trust is... Trust is not worrying about someone else. You don't worry they're going to mess with you or lie to you or cheat you. I know I trust someone if I'm not worrying about what they do, obviously :)I believe someone earns trust my not doing bad things to me.

I don't trust a lot of people though, so it takes a long time. If you're trying to convince yourself of something, then it's not true. I honestly don't believe you can re-earn trust in a situation where what you've done is very bad (cheating, stealing, etc.) unless a lot of time passes between the bad deed and the forgiveness.

No one decides if it's been enough time, it just is or it isn't. To help someone trust you again, you have to not do anything bad to them. Sometimes the person will never trust you again - that's just life, and you have to move on.

There is nothing you can do to prove yourself. The issue is with them. Sources: My knowledge .

When you can leave them in your house alone and they don't take nothing. Also if you been bogus in the past and want to regain someone's trust back offer them moneys like 500 or a 1000 as a My fault money. Trust is knowing that it is gonna be cool because you trust that person Trust is security.

Trust is like she'll pay me back this 20 very soon she always does . Sources: Truith .

1 well the truth is... the thing that earned the distrust is more of a "could have" or "maybe" thing..... someone called the police on someone else, in a fit of confusion and hurt, and the police came out, gave a nice long lecture and then left, noone went to jail and nothing bad happened except there was mistrust between the couple... the couple later (5mths) reconciled, made up... Noone was physically abused, no one was cheated on, it was just a bad night, the couple never fought before this night it was not anything worth all the drama that came about afterwards, feelings were hurt, people were concerned and that is just that..... either way, the couple came to terms and are happy togethe now, but the families are still holding grudges, harboring ill will.... this would not matter to most, people say you marry the child not the family.. but unfortunately this is a very tight knit family and family does matter... one where they spend every weekend together doing family things.... they live near each other and spend time with each other.... and this hostility has caused the couple to refrain from activities with the family or when they do go to their perspective family gatherings they are miserable because their mate is not there and they know they are not welcome there..... it's a Modern day Romeo and Juliet if you've ever seen one! .

Well the truth is... the thing that earned the distrust is more of a "could have" or "maybe" thing..... someone called the police on someone else, in a fit of confusion and hurt, and the police came out, gave a nice long lecture and then left, noone went to jail and nothing bad happened except there was mistrust between the couple... the couple later (5mths) reconciled, made up... Noone was physically abused, no one was cheated on, it was just a bad night, the couple never fought before this night it was not anything worth all the drama that came about afterwards, feelings were hurt, people were concerned and that is just that..... either way, the couple came to terms and are happy togethe now, but the families are still holding grudges, harboring ill will.... this would not matter to most, people say you marry the child not the family.. but unfortunately this is a very tight knit family and family does matter... one where they spend every weekend together doing family things.... they live near each other and spend time with each other.... and this hostility has caused the couple to refrain from activities with the family or when they do go to their perspective family gatherings they are miserable because their mate is not there and they know they are not welcome there..... it's a Modern day Romeo and Juliet if you've ever seen one!

" "Trust?! " "Would you ""trust" somebody, who always says "trust me"? " "do you trust cops?

Why? " "who said "Never trust a Liberal"" "how do you know when to trust?

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.