Okay...This girl shouldn't be saving you from the guy. You should be saving her from him! If you have any true belief that you two could become a couple, then well..I don't know what you should do but this girl is making a big mistake!
I myself have an experience about an older guy and I regret it so so much. They live a different life, and they don't really want a young sweet girl to love, they want a young sweet girl to ****. Q_Q It's sad but probable.
So this girl probably doesn't realize it, and she won't until it's over if she's in love. It'll be hurtful, but if you're there to be a shoulder to cry on when he dumps her or abuses her (he probably will...) she'll be grateful. But if I were you I'd try to save her before she ruins herself.
After all, she might just be losing her pureness and virginity to a perverted 40 year old. Also, this guy can't be too good if he threatened to come after you. Not very mature imo.
If he was an intelligent dude he wouldn't react like that.
Stick around. But only if you think you can stand up to the challenge. Because it may take a lot of time and pain before she comes around.
I can't imagine her relationship with the 40 year old would end well and it'd be nice if you were still there to help her up after it.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.