Was this woman just playing with me and why couldn't I just walk away?

Dating on line is not realistic. The reason this makes you so angry is cos you used the power of your mind to build this amazing super woman a realistic one with problems but you made her out to be something completely into something shes not. Everyone who dates on line does this.

A few days can seem like months of knowing the person now you have to break the fantasy and realize who she really was. Just an average real woman with too many issues leave it alone.

Women on line usually are married and looking for a little fun and attention and are mostly playing with your emotions. You need to get out and meet people that you can actually take out on a date.

Lol... I know how you feel. Just ask friends to set you up.

I read your story and frankly, I highly doubt meeting women on the internet has anything to do with you getting roped in. Actually, you roped yourself in...you even said so in your message. Quote, "I didn't notice the red flags quicker and walk away."

What's that tell you? And then you said, "I got flattered by the attention and caught up in the fantasy, etc. , etc." And with all due respect, you then defend yourself by saying you don't feel any pain? Oh really?

What do you think the anger (you admit to) is called...ecstacy? Your original Q is..."Was this woman just playing with me and why couldn't I just walk away? " My answer...your ego was running you.

And my bet is, it's wasn't the first time you were played.Am I close? You need to learn to distinguish you from your ego. Allowing your ego to take you over, (which is what you did) you're only gonna keep getting hurt.

The bad news is, your ego isn't your friend. I understand if this ego stuff is news to you. From what you wrote, this is a lesson you need to learn.

But don't take my word for it. Just check it out on your own. Good luck.

Donny (Life Coach).

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.