Think of a reference object as being a specific instance with a "life" of its own, that several people may be interested in. For example an Employee, or an Order. If I go and get Employee number 83 and ask for some of its attributes and you do the same thing we would expect to get the same answer, if I change the employee's phone number then you see that change: we are both referring to the same object A value object is something that it makes sense to copy around "by value".
An example Fowler gives is a Date. What's the date of that order? What's the birthday of that employee?
We have a copy of the date, by implication it would be silly to change it. There's no expectation that this value object "knows" it's an employee's birthday - it's just a useful value to pass around.
A reference is an address (pointer) to where the value of the object resides. A value is the actual value the binary representation. If you assign a value you are making a copy of the value into the new variable.
If you assign a reference you are just passing the address of where the value is saved.
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