What do you do if you find out the person you're engaged to has been sneaking with his ex-wife and turns his phone off while he is with her?

%REPLIES% Answer If you are just engaged I think you still have time to change your minds. By the way you haven't made your wedding vows You have to think twice,about your interests. Ask yourself this question,"do I want to live like this for the rest of my life?" once you're able to unswer that one then you'll make an informed decision.

It doesn't matter how much you love him but you also have to think about yourself first. You want to be happy,do what makes you happy. YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE.

ENJOY! Answer Leave him, unless you can talk to him and he is willing to get counseling; separate and couples. Just know that confronting him may be what makes him decide to leave you.

That could be for the best if he is still seeing his exwife. Don't get married until you have gone to counseling and are 100% sure this won't happen again. If you are planning to have children, it will be even harder after a few years Answer Drop him like a hot rock and don't look back.

You don't deserve to be treated with such disrespect. He's got problems and you don't need them. Even though it will hurt terribly at first, in time you will heal and be able to have a healthy relationship and functional marriage.

Do yourself a favor and move on now - don't look back honey Answer You give his ring back and do not see him any more. Even if you do, he still won't respect you. Trapping him won't keep him either He was not yours.

He's also immature and has issues Answer This is not a man who should be engaged to anyone right now. Maybe you were a rebound relationship and he just wants to make sure he has someone hanging on a string for him one way or the other, playing two ends against the middle Regardless, I wouldn't want anything more to do with him. Even if you live in denial for a while and marry him, you'll just end up getting a divorce down the road Answer Keep the ring, pawn it, buy yourself something nice.

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