What do you do/say if someone wants to make you their "fwb" (friend w benefits) instead of their "girlfriend"?

Stop and think about it. If he liked you that much, he wouldn't have let it be just FWB for so long and he would have pursued a real relationship. If he liked you that much, he wouldn't have chosen his ex over you.

If he respected you, he wouldn't think he could just drop into your life and request sex on a whim. If he cared about you, he'd be happy that you're happy and he wouldn't be asking you to cheat on your boyfriend. Unless you want to ruin your relationship and you enjoy being used you need to tell him to get lost.

I put the plan in motion and it didn't even take a week for things to turn around. She called me late last night and we talked for hours. She said she wants to be together with me again.

I'm just thrilled right now. We're going out tonight and I feel strongly that we will get back together. Read more here.

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