What do you find most appealing in the opposite sex?

Physical attributes aside. What in a person's character or personality? Asked by curiousme 47 months ago Similar questions: find appealing opposite sex Lifestyle > Sexuality.

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It is a little hard to put in words but my wife has it. I am basically a big kid and I still find all sorts of things to marvel at and enjoy. My wife shares that with me and so I would say that a sort of child like wonder is the thing that I find most appealing.

I want someone who will share my delight at seeing or finding something new and who doesn’t think that I’m silly when I watch Bugs Bunny or when I make sound effects noises when I am driving. I want someone who will giggle with me and find humor in the oddest of places. I want someone who works to live and not lives to work and someone who will buy me a SpongeBob birthday cake without thinking anything about it.

Lucky me! I found all of that and I married her many years ago.

Some of it's difficult to define, but I'll try. In terms of personality and other intangibles, sense of humor is near the top of the list. I like someone who enjoys laughing and being a bit silly -- or at least enjoys my silliness.

I could say "someone with a good sense of humor," but then that's totally subjective, isn't it? If someone can enjoy doubled-over belly laughs with me at least a couple times a day with me, that's a hit. Someone who is close to their family and wants to have a closely knit family of their own -- this means they want to have children, if that wasn't obvious -- scores points.

I've always been close to my family, extended family included. Some of my fondest childhood memories are from those holidays when everyone gets together for big, loud and slightly chaotic fun. Maybe it's a primal thing that I'm attracted to people who are family-oriented.

This world could use a little more compassion. A compassionate person -- someone who takes the time to listen, understand, and sympathize, if not empathize -- is good to the core. That's the kind of person I'd like to spend my life with, and the kind of person I'd like to raise a family with.

Compassionate people are more tolerant and respectful, and those are qualities that matter to me in a big way. Music has been a big part of my life since I can remember. I listen to music a lot, play a couple instruments, and almost always have something running through my head.

I'm attracted to people who share a passion for music, even if it's not exactly the same music I love. (I have pretty wide musical taste, so I'm likely to enjoy at least something the other person likes. ) I could go on and on, but I don't want to bore you to tears.

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I like someone with a great personality and can dish out a good joke and enjoy good company as well as being sensitive and not have hang ups on expressing their feelings. Sources: personal experience ragrug_lady's Recommendations The Good Humor Man Used from: $22.50 Good Sense of Humor Amazon List Price: $14.95 Used from: $3.98 .

Compassion... To me, compassion is one of the most important necessities of human interaction. One of the definitions of compassion over at Dictionary. Com is "the humane quality of understanding the suffering of others and wanting to do something about it."

I realize that people sometimes don't help other people where such help is completely selfless, but someone who helps another because it just *feels good* to assuage another's suffering is pretty appealing in my book. As a man, when I see this is women, I see the best qualities of nurturing and mothering. There is plenty of suffering to go around in the world and a woman who is capable of displaying compassion is a beautiful woman indeed.

Sources: Dictionary. Com and my experience .

A sense of humor and intelligence These are two attributes that generally will stay with you through the decades. Unlike some physical attributes that may fall by the wayside, a sense of humor and intelligence can carry you a long way.

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