Cory, the founder of Victoria's Secret (whom I will call Mr. Raymond) had a similiar dilemma as you, only his was finding a store were he could buy lingerie for his wife without getting the stares from other customers in a typical department store. Armed with an M.B.A. From Stanford University he founded the lingerie mail order business now known worldwide as Victoria's Secret so that men like himself and you could purchase lingerie for their wives, girlfriends and others from the comfort of their homes without going through the hassle that was common when trying to purchase lingerie fashions in a Department store setting. The business was started over 30 years ago and was sold to Lerner, Inc.
Of Columbus, Ohio in 1984 for $6 million dollars. Hope this information will assist you in finding your lingerie that can be mail ordred in a relative discreet manner. Good luck!
Move to another site away from the other men. Find a gender friendly retailer, I know several that will gladly talk by phone, are reliable. When they get to know you and your likes/dislikes, they can clearly accomodate your questions.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.