Hmmm, good question. I am very open with my spouse when it comes to the bedroom. We have been married 16 years and the bedroom activity is never dull.
I feel like when we are together I can be myself and it is our time to play. I do have a funny moment, we were using handcuffs and they were real from a family member who used to work security. My spouse put them on me and THEN we realized we did not have the key.In a panic, we pulled out the skill saw and OMG it made the metal hot and my wrists were burning.
We had no choice, it was use the saw or call 911 and NO THANK YOU TO THAT. Needless to say that was the last hand cuff night!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.