Sorry that the guy you met hasn't been in touch. How 'cool' were you towards him? Is it possible you actually came across as 'cold' without meaning to?
If so or just being cool has given him the message that you're not that interested in him? I would send another message and if nothing happens then put it down to experience. Not all guys, but a few, once they've got you into the sack, loose interest afterwards - it may also be that he has a girlfriend or other relationship going on.
Hope things work out.
And there are guys who even if you do get payment first, if you do not put it away out of their sight, they will steal it back when you aren't looking. It is a sad fact that all clients should be treated as though they will do these things, but the few that take advantage of the escorts cause these problems. It is the same with the escorts who are scammers they ruin things for the honest escorts, of which there are many.
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