What's proper etiquette: I've noticed Dude gaining a lil weight, how should I confront him? I suggested we work-out 2gether but he declined?

Since you've tried hinting, it's time for honesty. Be straight with him, but be gentle - the male ego is easily bruised. Say something like, "Baby, you know I love you, but lately I haven't been as attracted to you since you've gained this weight.

I want to be with you, so let's do this together! We can both be more healthy anyway, right? " Be healthy when you eat or when you cook, go on walks, go swimming, just try to be more active - AND go to the gym.

Just do it together and you'll both benefit. Seeing you looking hot will make him want to look good too! And if you do it together, it will build him up and bring you closer at the same time.

Besides, losing weight doesn't just have to be in the gym and the kitchen if you get my meaning! ;) Good luck!

Oftentimes people who gain weight are already keenly aware of their situation and are avoiding the issue. Maybe this person is stressed about something or their schedule changed and prohibits them from working out or eating healthy. Trying to understand the root cause of the weight gain might help you determine the best approach to addressing with your friend.

However, we believe the proper social etiquette is not to 'confront' the issue (unless there is serious health risk) but rather offer your support through kind gestures. After all, one's weight is a touchy subject. If it really is about fitness, your approach of a joint workout, hike or walk is certainly a positive step in the right direction.

Follow it up with a healthy meal together!

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